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	<title>SHINE! by AshBrones.com &#187; Psychology</title>
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	<description>Ash gets the tangles out.</description>
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		<title>What you have control over</title>
		<link>http://www.ashbrones.com/what-you-have-control-over</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Apr 2010 14:50:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ash Brones</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Daily experience makes it easy to sometimes forget what is important.

More than anything else in this last several months, what I've learned about is being given perspective.  Perspective changes how you feel, it changes your experience.

For example: let's say one is feeling lonely or left out.  Perhaps she  may feel judged by her friends, due to recent risky decisions she's made.  Or, on another perspective, perhaps her friends are busy with their own new relationships and life in general and still love her just the same, wishing she would stop by sometime.  No one picks up the phone because they are all viewing the experience from their own perspective. ]]></description>
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		<title>Considering Changing your Thoughts?</title>
		<link>http://www.ashbrones.com/considering-changing-your-thoughts</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Apr 2010 14:39:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ash Brones</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[awareness]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I've noticed that sometimes I will repeat maladaptive behaviors out of habit. Not because these are the things I wish to do, but because they come so naturally to me. I don't have to think about them-- and that's probably the root of the problem. I don't think of them. If I were consciously thinking of them, I would repeat behaviors that were healthy and "good for me."]]></description>
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		<title>Sleeping Better</title>
		<link>http://www.ashbrones.com/sleeping-better</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Dec 2009 21:38:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ash Brones</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Psychology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[get better sleep]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[insomnia]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[things to help you sleep]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ashbrones.com/?p=561</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[While I was going through the motions of getting my degree, I frequently suffered many a night where I would just lie there.  Not sleeping.  Not thinking.  Just waiting for the alarm to ring so that I might get up and do it all over again.  Exhausted.

Along my progression of mindful living, I have discovered a few things that have in the last several months, led me to sleep soundly and deeply.]]></description>
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		<title>STOP Doing What&#8217;s Not Right.</title>
		<link>http://www.ashbrones.com/stop-doing-whats-not-right</link>
		<comments>http://www.ashbrones.com/stop-doing-whats-not-right#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 03:45:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ash Brones</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Psychology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[recognizing what isn't right for you]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[It takes courage and maturity to recognize when something isn't right for you.

Change is frightening, and sometimes we take comfort in just keeping the status quo.  However, as much as it's frightening, stagnation can require much more energy from you than putting forth the effort to not only DECIDE what you want, but then to ACT and GET what you want.]]></description>
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		<title>The 1st Step of Making What IS.</title>
		<link>http://www.ashbrones.com/the-1st-step-of-making-what-is</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 22:44:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ash Brones</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Featured Content]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Psychology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[creating your life using your thoughts]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[moments of clarity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[reality is fleeting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[snapshot moments]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[what really matters]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ashbrones.com/?p=550</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[A series of days in which my mind has been filled with the fog of worry and anxiety... a battle of my internal wits throwing out euphemisms and cliches and proverbs in an attempt to guide my thoughts... Thoughts become things... Physical reality or spiritual reality or mentality or psychology or...??]]></description>
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		<title>Nothing&#8217;s Working!</title>
		<link>http://www.ashbrones.com/nothings-working</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Aug 2009 20:32:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ash Brones</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Parenting Advice]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Dearest Ash,
My kids are so rotten.  They&#8217;re totally hyper and like to break whatever rules I give.  Here&#8217;s an example:  I told them to pick up their rooms, and instead of picking it up, they go in there and play with their stuff.  They&#8217;re in first and third grade. I yell, and I threaten to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Who you aren&#8217;t.</title>
		<link>http://www.ashbrones.com/who-you-arent</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2009 03:50:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ash Brones</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Mind]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Psychology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attracting problems]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Change your Thoughts]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[fake it until you make it]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fatigue]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[live and let live]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[thoughts become things]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[you are a bundle of unending energy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[you cannot control other people]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[your children NEED you]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ashbrones.com/?p=486</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[How you feel is everything.  Your emotions are a lens through which you view the world.   If you change your thoughts, you can change your emotions.  You CAN transform your life.  You CAN transform the world in which you live.   Here are a few simple points:]]></description>
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		<title>Science and the Box</title>
		<link>http://www.ashbrones.com/science-and-the-box</link>
		<comments>http://www.ashbrones.com/science-and-the-box#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Jul 2009 18:13:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ash Brones</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Featured Content]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Psychology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[changing the way we look at things]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Laws of the Universe]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[positive psychology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[quantum physics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[science]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ashbrones.com/?p=420</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Positive psychology may appear to be a new set of ideas or concepts that are ground breaking and new.  The honest truth is that it&#8217;s been around for the entire documented history of mankind.  It has its roots in Eastern Philosophy and early paganistic methods.   Eastern philosophy promotes the idea of meditation, and paganism promotes [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Patterns of Mis-behavior</title>
		<link>http://www.ashbrones.com/step-parenting-advice-2</link>
		<comments>http://www.ashbrones.com/step-parenting-advice-2#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 05:18:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ash Brones</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Parenting Advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bi-polar or sugar sensitive?]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional cranky children]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hyperactivity]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ashbrones.com/?p=184</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Dearest Ash,

My kids are great in the morning for me, but when they get to school they act like little crazies.  They run around like banshees, are louder than the other kids, and won't sit still.  By the time lunch comes around, they are throwing tantrums and the teachers are exhausted.  Right after lunch, they're angels again, but within a few hours, they are doing a repeat of the morning's behavior.  When I pick them up from school, they're cranky and tearful.  By dinner time, they're my little angels again.  What gives?]]></description>
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		<title>Step Parenting Doesn&#8217;t Have to BE the Pits</title>
		<link>http://www.ashbrones.com/step-parenting-doesnt-have-to-be-the-pits</link>
		<comments>http://www.ashbrones.com/step-parenting-doesnt-have-to-be-the-pits#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 05:17:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ash Brones</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Parenting Advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[full authority]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[get along with the kids' mom]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[teaching children to respect their step parent]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dearest Ash:

My husband and his three kids and I live together in a small home.   His kids are disrespectful to me, and they often will do exactly the opposite of what I ask them to do.  When I try to enforce a rule, they either ignore me or argue with me. I've tried being patient, and I've tried being nice.  The kids do alright with their own parents, yet seem to have no respect for me.  What do I do?]]></description>
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