Dearest Ash,

Please help!  My partner is possibly the most annoying person on the planet.  She is messy, and constantly leaving her stuff laying around everywhere.  I try to keep the place clean, and pick up after her, but it’s driving me bonkers.  She makes weird noises with her cheeks, and she has the irritating habit of clicking her fingernails when she’s bored.  I’m beginning to not even want to be in the same room as her.

Going Through the Roof in GA

Dear Through the Roof,

I want you to remember what it was like to be REALLY attracted to your partner.  Likely, the greatest part of that equation was your alone time together.  I encourage you to reignite that spark and get it on together more.  When you have amazing sex, many annoying things are forgiveable. :)